This is going to be a very interesting feauture. At first I named it "Awsome finds" and what I had in mind was sharing with you the amazing goodies I find on the internet. At first it seemed nice, but with a second thought it seemed too general. I blocked and didn't want to write about it and didn't really know what to do with it.
And then, a great idea came to my mind. Why don't I do something, that will get me closer to accomplish a couple of my 22 before 22 goals, while I make some people happy and inspire some others also?! How am I gonna do that? By doing something good for someone and share it with you every Friday! So simple, but so AWSOME! By doing good things for others, and by others I don't mean only people but animals, the earth etc., we get so much pleasure. Others also get pleasure, of course. It's a win-win!
So today, I'm sharing with you something very special. On Wednesday the 17th, Phillip and I, had our second annivarsary. Yes, we're 2 years together and we have a 1 year old son. Everything happened so fast and I still feel like I first met him yesterday.
Anyway, since we had our son we faced so many obstacles. All these bad moments we had, created a gap between us. I always point at him what he's been doing wrong(in a not nice kind of way) and he doesn't care about me at all. Many times I asked myself if I really wanted to be with him anymore. The answer is always the same...YES, but not like that. We have to be like before. We have to love, respect and care for each other. The idea is that if I stop acting like a crazy bitch and begin being sweet and calm, he'll start being nice to me again. I know we can do it.
I want to encourage him to do more things for me. To do that, I first have to make sure he feels loved. So, I wrote down 100 things that I love about him. Whenever he feels bad, he can read one (or more) of those to feel better (I hope).
Writing these little sentences wasn't easy. I had to travel through the last two years of my life and remember what made me love him at first. I had to forget his negative side and focus on the goods things (man, that was hard). It already added a bit of positivity in my life. I hope this will happen with Phillip also (I'm gonna give it to him tomorrow because I didn't have the time to make it sooner).
What do you think about my new feature?
What do you do to connect with your husband?
I'd love to see your comments!
Love & Peace