Δευτέρα, 10 Σεπτεμβρίου 2012

About calmness...

When I was on the ship, coming back from my magical island, I met a girl. I was breastfeeding Nereus on the floor, in a sleeping bag. She was walking with a baby on her arms, I think she was breastfeeding, too. She smiled at me (it was that sweet, innocent, divine smile that a woman who breastfeeds gives to another breastfeeding woman), I smiled back and got lost into my baby's hug. I must have been smiling for several minutes.

Although, I thought that he would sleep, he didn't. So I took him to walk around the ship. I met her again. She said ''He's restless right? Just be calm, it's only one night.'' while she had that sweet smile on her face. I knew that I would travel alone and I was prepared for a hard sleepless night. I already knew that if he wanted to sleep, he would, no matter what time and me getting nervous wouldn't help. I was ready to have a ''difficult'' night and I have decided to have fun with it. She didn't teach me anything new, that I didn't know already. She made me remember what my way of thinking is and should be. She made me more sure about what I do here with this child. I am surrounded by nervous, almost hysterical women and many times I have found myself to be affected by their attitude and act like them. It's important to keep in contact with yourself and don't forget who you are. Her calm face made me realise that I'm not alone, that there are other mamas out there who find happiness everywhere.

I'm talking to everybody out there...Don't wait for a nice moment to come...CREATE IT!!! Time runs out and don't forgive, create nice moments! Find the happiness inside you!

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